Ask Jolene

Need an answer? Comfort? Reassurance? Encouragement? Do not worry because I am here for you.

Hi Jolene! I am a girl that is talking to this guy, but keep feeling like he doesn’t really feel the same as I do about him. What do I do?

That’s always a tough one. A part of me wants to say that if you’re feeling uneasy like that, then something is off. However, just talk to him, if he assures you that everything is okay, then believe him! A lot of times I think we get stuck on what we believe. Just breathe, relax, and let it be. Maybe he is having a rough few days or something. Give him a break and if this feeling of yours continues after a while then do something about it.

I hope this helped in some way. Good luck!

Hello Jolene! Don’t really need anything, my dog just died and I am pretty sad, can I get some comfort?

I am terribly sorry about your pet! I have personally never been through a loss like that but I can imagine that it is awful to lose your pet companion. Don’t focus on the sad, but instead focus on the good. Think about how your dog had a life full of love, many dogs don’t really get that. Overall, just focus on the good memories.

I hope you feel better soon! And again, so sorry for your loss.

Hello Jolene! I really want to get a tattoo but I know my parents will be so upset with me, should I go for it anyways?

Honestly, it all depends on your intentions, in my opinion. If you’re doing it just to upset your parents, don’t do it. If the meaning behind the tattoo is not important to you then I would not get it. However, if the tattoo doesn’t really have meaning but it is still something that you want to do because YOU want to, then go for it. It is your body and are free to do with as you wish. However, the big deal behind it is your intentions. As long as there is nothing but good intentions, then I am happy with whatever choice you decide to do. Just think things very carefully because remember that it is something that will stay with you for the rest of your life.

Well ladies and gents, these are all the questions I have for this week. I hope you enjoy what I have to write, and keep asking questions! Remember, I am here for you.

Now to leave you, a little thought to keep in mind:

Never ever settle for less than you deserve.

Your favorite girl,


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